How many of us want to gain respect? Admiration? For people to like us for what we are on the inside?
I’m sure all of you reading this article are cool, decent persons with moral values and courage when needed.
I ask the questions above almost every single day but, for starters, let me answer a question that I’ve been asked many times:
Are or should clothes be everything in life?
My answer is: definitely NO!
Why?
Because clothes are a means, not a purpose.
I know you probably don’t like people that wear very expensive clothes and drive expensive cars. Most of them, when you try to communicate with them, it’s like hitting a wall. It’s as if… they are just empty. It’s like they have this mask that they don’t want to take off. It’s as if there’s a wall between you and them that you can’t jump over in order to get to them… to what they’re really like inside.
Then WHY, why do they hide behind clothes?
Being good at analyzing this ever since I was a kid, I pondered many times about the reasons some people wear extravagant clothes to draw attention and to reject them when they attempt communication. I tried to